I have been considering a question lately: is the road to success paved with working on what you love?
Some seem to believe that you should only do what you like – implying that it is done to the exclusion of things you don’t like to do. In the abstract, this sounds about right – who would spend hoards of time doing something they hate? One argument is that anyone who has been forced to work out of some necessity will likely scoff, as necessity is the mother of the unpleasant.
However, if the work is to be tenable in the long run, it must be relatively pleasant, lest it become the bane of one’s existence – a situation that I could relate to, a situation that could hardly be defined as success in any way.
However, let us point out, success is NOT “doing your dream job.” There are not enough dream jobs in the world for that to work. For example, take writers. There are mountains of people who would love to write for a living, yet every major city generally only has one newspaper; every state only so many magazines. Only so many books can be printed as people will only demand so much. Thus, those who wish to write for a living are generally foiled. Some succeed; most don’t. Or take poets. Is it humanly possible to make a good living writing poetry? How about writing music? Even these pursuits must encompass some of the tedious, the belabored, the demeaning. And even those who find more ordinary jobs and manage to love them – can they really love every minute? If they don’t, are they a failure?
I wrote this post because I feel there is sometimes resentment against pre-med or Med, I suppose) students. We are seen as the opposite of those doing only what we love, instead we are sometimes seen as competitive raptors, chasing a high salary and relatively high social standing, those gods of men. We are narrow-minded, greedy even. We somehow choke down all the information we must know to proceed, all for a one-way path to financial success. However, there are other ways to financial success, ways that probably don’t require the entire decade spanning your 20′s to fulfill. It’s true, without having some toleration for the material and the work, one might be doomed. without aptitude for it, certainly. The chances of someone who loathes all things medical, biological, chemical, and statistical making it out of their residency at the usual age of about 30 are pretty slim. They might even be pitied, as their life, one of disliking their work, will not be success. On the other hand, one who loves those studies will likely still find they embark on unpleasant activities all the time.
Our decision to go down that path is multifaceted, bound up in interest for work itself, perhaps feeling a penchant for it based on experience. Yes, we know the other benefits, but that is not all we are after. For we pre-meds have a job in mind, one that we want, and one that we are pretty sure we’ll enjoy. We want to be doctors, and we do what we must to get there.
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I totally agree. Thank you so much for justifying my point(not that you had to, or that you did it because of me, but it does justify it anyway). I will enjoy being a Doctor, but moreover, I WILL enjoy making all that money WITH the enjoyment of the health profession!
It’s very difficult to know who you are and what you want in life, but it sounds like you’re there. Many young adults today are not able to identify any career and they are unable to find a job. I think you figured it out. I’m a therapist and a coach and have only met women doctors who have loved their choice. Enjoy and always remember your priorities in life.
Yeah, the whole thing just got me thinking and I wanted to write about it to sort my thoughts. I’m glad you agree
Thanks for the comment!
Yeah, I’ve wanted to be a doctor ever since I was about seven years old, so I’ve never had the indecision problem. However, it does contribute to living in a pressure-cooker…this too shall pass, though, and I shall be on to where I want to be (or at least a lot closer than I am now).
I think that liking the job is important, but not the whole issue. It goes further, to getting satisfaction from the job. Being a doctor (clinical) means helping people in trouble, advising people who need it, being responsible for major decisions in patient’s lives — I think the best doctors are motivated by a real concern for the well-being of their patients and that they are rewarded in large part by the feeling that they have used their talents and abilities well. To help other people. I have great respect for some doctors; they are the finest kind of people. Money truly is secondary. GF
Well said, GF. I suppose I should have talked about that aspect more. I think you give a thorough explanation. I think I walked into my own trap here…
Pia, I have to take up for you a bit on this one. It was popular during my childhood to tell young people not to worry about practicalities but to follow their dreams where ever they led. I think this advice may be appropriate for some, but not all. Sometimes following your dreams can be a path to very predictable disappointment.
It really kind of depends — what kind of person are you? Are you practical to a fault? Or so whimsical that you sometimes run out of gas in the car? People who are obsessively practical need to be told to lighten up and follow their inclinations more, while those who are impractical need to be told to pull their head out of the clouds and look at things honestly.
As always, I appreciate your contributions, and support you 100 percent.